Things Learned: Sophomore year

Well, it’s official folks; I am a junior in college and will be starting the nursing school next fall.  My sophomore year at TCU is over and I am glad I have two and a half more years at this wonderful place. I am thankful for TCU and all the people I have met. Here are some things I learned my sophomore year:

1.     I can always count on the BLUU having salad and my chicken being a little under cooked.

2.     Always accept lunch invites. You never know what friendships may come from it. In return, do not be afraid to ask others. The likeliness they will say no is slim because everyone likes food.

3.     Having your room at 60 degrees is socially unacceptable, but do it if it makes you happy.

4.     A school that brings you bunnies and puppies to play with is the school that you want to be at.

5.     On any given day there is free food to be found on campus. If you are in Honors your odds will increase greatly.

6.     If you have the opportunity to go on a spring break trip with a professor and your classmates, do it. Chi town forever. #CMSB

7.     Growing up is weird.

8.     Take responsibility for your actions.

9.     Reading over 20 books in one semester will change how you think about the world.

10. Directories can come in handy even in our tech savvy world. Hold on to them.

11. Don’t be embarrassed if you legitimately feel proud to see an alumnus at the grocery store, gym or mall because you know you both love TCU.  

12. An on campus job can be the best part of your week.

13. Sprinkles closes at 9. It takes 30 minutes to get there.

14. We are given what He knows we can handle even though at the time it seems too much to bear.

15. Sometimes you just have to call your mama multiple times in one day.

16. People’s perceptions of you are completely different than what you believe of yourself. First and foremost, be content with who you are.

17. The first floor of Reed smells weird. Milton is a Hilton. Starbucks is the best place to study and walking from one end of the campus to the other takes less than 10 minutes.

18. When you pass someone walking to class and they ask, “how you are doing?” say something other than “Good, just busy.” None of us are too busy for what we should truly be investing our time in.

19. You can find one of your best friends through your sorority.

20.  If it’s a game day and the football game doesn’t start until 6, you are still not getting any work done that day. Plan accordingly.

Heeeeeere summer, summer.

For the TCU horned frogs there are six weeks until summer. In between that time there are papers, mixers, presentations, formals, exams, interviews, books to be read and shenanigans to be had. This summer I have the privilege of being an orientation leader and spending a summer with 22 amazing individuals as we welcome the new baby horned frogs. I have three goals this summer:  start and finish my book list (The Catcher and the Rye, The Fault in Our Stars, and many others, suggestions are welcome), watch all seasons of “30 Rock” and “Parks & Recreation,” and grow closer to my friends while helping the new horned frogs adjust to college life. As excited as I am for my “summer like none other”, my heart is currently full. I’m ready for summer but I am content to wait and enjoy these last few weeks.

So, whether you are a senior in high school or a senior in college, or even a sophomore like me just waiting to be able to call yourself a junior, hold off on wanting summer so badly. We have about 6 weeks to impulsively drive to Dallas for sprinkles thirty minutes before it closes or lay on our beds and have life chats when we know papers are due soon. Life is short and college is even shorter so be happy, hopeful, and most importantly be a horned frog. 

From Regis to TCU

This weekend, just one year ago, I came home from Denver for Spring Break. Every time I had come home I was simply overjoyed but I thought it was merely because I had such amazing family and friends back home that I couldn’t wait to see. Well, as you all probably know that week I toured TCU and Baylor. (two places I never considered going while looking at colleges senior year.) I remember just having a conversation with a friend as she asked me how school was and I just broke down crying because I was unhappy. After visiting TCU, I knew it was time for me to make a change. I returned to Regis and sent in my application and in April I received my acceptance letter to TCU.

When I decided to leave everyone asked if it was because I was homesick. In all honesty, I got homesick only once. It all really came down to the fact I knew I wanted to work and live in Texas after graduation and Texas will simply always be my home. 

When people now ask me how TCU is I know I don’t have to lie about being in love with my life at my school. There is no greater pride I feel than being a horned frog. (I know, I know who would have ever thought.) I have met such wonderful women of God who I call my best friends. I am in the honors college, a member of Catholic Community and a member of Zeta Tau Alpha and have such caring professors. Everything that I thought college was supposed to be that I didn’t find at Regis is what I have found at TCU.

I know that if I had never gone away for school I would not be as thankful as I am for TCU. I would not be as thankful for my great state and surely not as close to my mom and grandma as I am today. I have no regrets for having to go away to figure out I needed to come back. Every part of our lives hopefully amounts to something in the end, some lesson we all need to learn, and I didn’t have to wait to long to figure that out. There is a greater plan that we are all unaware of so we must trust in Him.

Here I am a year from my decision and I just want to tell others reading this that no matter what, be happy with where you are and if you are not, then make a change. Yes, it is scary to start over and yes in some ways you may feel like you have done something wrong, but life is too short to be unhappy and not getting what you deserve. So here’s to making changes and just simply trying to figure it out, day by day. 

Love on Every Calendar Day.

         The time has once again arrived ladies and gents. Yes, yes, Valentine's Day is quickly approaching. Whether you are married, single, in a relationship or just kind of confused about life, celebrate Valentine's Day with happiness and candy and tell someone you love them. However, know that there shouldn't be just one day a year to express how much someone means to you. Every day, at any moment should be special enough to tell those you care most about that you love them. So to the people I hold closest to my heart, I would like to give y'all a reminder of why y'all mean so much to me:

Mommy, I love that you are not only my mom, but my best friend. Thank you for letting me be a mama's girl and never giving up on me.

Grandma, I love that you are seriously the coolest person. You bowl, play Majong, and have more friends than I do. Thank you for being my number one fan even when I don't deserve it.

Sarah, I love that you know everything about me, yet still love me all the same. Thank you for loving me despite my imperfections.

Mariah, I love that you have such a zest for life and are so fabulous. Thank you for the fact you remind me of Beyonce. 

Annie, I love that you are my big, my best friend and confidant. Thank you for being the type of friend that I prayed I would find TCU.

Paige, I love that you have such a huge heart. Thank you for your friendship that reminds me how God works in ways that we least expect.

Tessa, I love that you love squirrels and that you scared me for the beginning of our friendship because you were so sassy.  Thank you for always listening. 

Bailey, I love that you are never afraid to tell me how it is. Thank you for showing me that being confident in yourself is so very beautiful.

Katherine, I love that you can always bring such a calmness to my heart. Thank you for being there for me. 

Lia, I love that you are Italian and therefore our bond is like none other. Thank you for being Italian, no seriously, you are great. 

Sarah, I love that you are are such a blessing in my life. Thank you for being like a sister to me.

So today, or tomorrow, or even on Valentine's Day, take a moment and tell those that mean the world to you why they matter and thank them for being who they are. Share the love.

Hope

What I love about the “Batman Trilogy” is also what I hate most about it. The social commentary that the writers expose the audiences to is chilling to watch play out on the screen. Last night, I attended the midnight premiere of “The Dark Night Rises,” and once again Christopher Nolan succeeded in drawing me in for two hours and 45 minutes. During this movie I sat there wondering if good would overcome evil, when at times I was losing hope in that good could prevail.

Now how silly can this be?  I tell myself, Christina, it is only a movie, stop tearing up when the bad guys are kicking the good guys down. But that’s the thing, the Batman movies draw you in. They make you wonder, can a whole city turn against its rich attempting to restore balance by taking from them and giving to the poor? Does this have to be done with murder, deceit and hatred? Now once again this is only Hollywood and yet you sit there thinking what is going to happen next, how will good triumph over evil? You wonder, how could a whole city come to hate their police department that has protected them for so many years? And most importantly, seriously, why can’t Gotham catch a break? First the Joker, now Bane.

So, we spend ten to twelve dollars to take an emotional and heroic ride through Gotham, drawn in by every gunshot and evil sinister move. I think it’s easy to talk about the evil and the bad guys when it comes a movie. Why wouldn’t it be? They are simply actors playing out a screenplay from a great DC comic. It’s all pretend and after the movie reel ends you can drive home and sleep safely in your bed. However, as I lay in bed last night, reading through my electronic newspaper, twitter, I thought it was a sick joke that someone would tweet that a shooting occurred in a movie theater in Aurora, Colorado. Things like that don’t happen where you have loved ones. Things like this only happen in scripted movies where no one really gets hurt, right?

But that’s the thing, life isn’t written out like a screenplay. What happened in Aurora, Colorado simply breaks my heart and all this morning I am simply thankful for the safety of my friends. So many people bash on social media, and yes, I realize it has its flaws, but you cannot deny that it allows for people all over the U.S. and even the world to come together. Earlier this morning I tweeted, “We must not forget that although the there is so much good in this world, many of times we are faced with evil. I wish that made it okay. #prayingforaurora.” Thousands of tweets just like these have been tweeted and Facebook messages posted, sending love and support to the victims and their families devastated by this horrible tragedy.

I wish we had the answers to why these things happen. I’ve never been one to subscribe to the saying, “everything happens for a reason” because I just can’t allow that to be an excuse for why bad things happen to good people. For me I can only turn to the Lord for things like this. My good friend Paige even tweeted, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. #psalm34:18” My faith is what helps me through times such as these when I question why people must suffer at the hands of those who only bring suffering.

In our world today we do not have a billionaire named Bruce Wayne who protects of our cities. And even if we did, would we turn against him like Gotham did? As people, I believe super heroes fascinate us. Their strength, their cool gadgets and their ability to be against all odds and still defeat the bad guys makes us admire them. But like I have said, we don’t have any Batman’s running around the streets of Dallas. However, the one thing that Batman gives to the people of Gotham is hope. A hope that no matter how scared or abandoned they may feel, seeing the sign of the Batman helps them know that he hasn’t given up on them, if they haven’t given up on Gotham. We as people have hope like this but it doesn’t come from a man dressed in black leather. It comes from people all around the world grieving and showing compassion for the tragedy that occurred last night. It comes from people staying connected and becoming aware that this life is ours to live, but every moment must be cherished. We do not need super heroes to save us, when we have the love and compassion that brings us all together, giving us hope for a better tomorrow.

Lessons Learned

A year ago around this time, I was preparing to graduate high school. Ironically enough, even though a year has gone by since graduation, in some ways it feels like just yesterday. But since that time much has happened: I moved to Colorado for a year, survived my first snow in, showed Texas pride, cried when my Texas Rangers lost the World Series, and completed my first year of college as a honors nursing major. Here are some things I learned my freshman year of college:

1.     Moving away from home for college is hard, but it can be done. I am thankful to have been given the opportunity to realize I never have to be afraid to leave home because I can always come back. 

2.     The “Freshmen 15” is real. When do you get it? When you come home from breaks.. What’s up non-cafeteria food?

3.     Sometimes you are going to come across some people you just don’t like. Okay, that’s fine. But you better treat them with respect because they are still people. 

4.     Free food. Free shirts. Free money. Free, the best word you’ll probably hear in college.

5.     Just because you enter into college does not mean people are mature young adults. So many people still have a lot of growing up to do, but keep your head up. People are who they are. Just remember to remain hopeful. 

6.     That country song that says “you find out who your friends are” could not have been more right.  You lose some friends from high school but grow much closer to the ones who really matter.

7.     Communal showers, shower shoes, and shower bucket, all works of the devil.

8.     When you come home for breaks, your family usually acts like they have not seen you in years. Don’t despair. It’s wonderful. Plus you get to eat wherever you want.

9.     If you are planning on being best friends with your roommate, take a step back. People are not always what they seem and living with someone in a prison cell doesn’t always bring out the best in everyone.

10. Not good at painting nails? By the second semester you will be an expert because Heaven knows you cannot afford to get your nails done.

11. If you don’t go to Target or a frozen yogurt place at least once a week you might want to reevaluate your sanity.

12. Your professors want you to succeed. Some of the people I respected the most on campus and went to when I thought I was going to have a mental break down were my professors.

13. You reap what you sow. I mean with both schoolwork and friendships.

14. When you can, study with others. If you can afford to do that at Starbucks that has comfy chairs, go for it.

15. Getting involved on campus is by far the best thing you can do. Well, that and become friends with upperclassmen. They are pretty cool.

16. easybib.com OH MY GOSH

17. Some times you just have to let go of people that do not make you the best person you can be.

18. If you are not happy, do something about it and make a change.

19.  Remember who you are and what you have come from.

20. Don’t wish for time to fly by. One day you’ll be moving in, starting a whole new life and before you know it you’ll be packing it all up, moving back home. 

Easter.

So, here we are, three days before Easter. Three days from the celebration of the resurrection of Jesus Christ. No doubt, Easter is in the top five of my favorite holidays. Most of you will have a jam-packed service or mass and then spend the day with family and friends. For me, this Easter is unlike any other I have had. This Easter is the first one I will not be with my family. No worries, I was only depressed for about three days. Luckily, I am blessed enough to spend my Easter break with my friend Becca and her family. Her mom even got me an Easter basket! Are you judging me? Well, listen, there is nothing creepy about a very large bunny that comes into your house and hides eggs and baskets full of goodies while you sleep, which pretty much puts you in a sugar coma the next day. Oh wait.

One of the best memories of my childhood was an Easter egg hunt at my aunt’s and uncle’s home. I was probably 6 and there must have been over 200 hundred eggs in their backyard. And guess what? The eggs had money in them. Of course, at that age I probably wanted candy, but my siblings and I surely banked that day. OH I almost forgot that we all matched on the important holidays. You know, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter. Without a doubt, I am sure my sister and I were wearing floral puffy dresses that made it difficult to conquer the Easter egg hunt like a lady. As tradition would have it, my family and I walked to my aunt’s and uncle’s country club where we would have a Easter brunch. I am thankful for memories such as these.

When you are little it’s all about the candy, the bunny and the plastic pastel eggs when it comes to Easter. But as I am getting into my old age I am realizing that Easter isn’t about the chocolate bunnies or the three days we get off for school. It’s about spending time with family, being thankful that Jesus has risen. Along with this, it is the ending of the Lenten season. 40 days are over and now I can have Swedish Fish! Yes, yes let us all rejoice in the streets but not forget that every day we are able to focus on prayer and sacrifice.

Let us all remember the reason for our celebration this Sunday. I hope everyone has a blessed day especially to all my friends and family back home! Happy Easter y’all!